Life Philosophy

  • john Cooper Clarke and Yana about Yana

    john Cooper Clarke and Yana about Yana

    Imagine my nerves as I stood before John Cooper Clarke, my hero, ready to hand him a book for signing. It was a moment I’ll never forget. “What is your name?” he asked.“Yana,” I replied.“What a beautiful name,” he said. “Do you know that there was a very famous model and singer by the same…

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  • Solo Travelling to Bulgaria and Meaningful Connections

    Solo Travelling to Bulgaria and Meaningful Connections

    I was sitting in the café in Nessebar, Bulgaria, watching as an older gentleman across the square sold works of art.I was mesmerised. It was clear the man was keen to sell, but there was more to him. He had so much passion, yet also integrity.I noticed a painting with lilac purple flowers and came…

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  • If you were to be a painting, which painting would you be?

    If you were to be a painting, which painting would you be?

    Discovering this quote was like uncovering a hidden gem! It resonated with me and sparked a deep, meaningful connection that truly inspired me: “I am an artist at living – my work of art is my life” by Suzuki, a Japanese philosopher and scholar of Zen Buddhism. I was thinking about my life, all the…

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  • Umbrella and random act of kindness

    Umbrella and random act of kindness

    I was walking home after work. It started raining heavily. There was nowhere to hide, and I was soaked.The car stopped, and a man came out.“Take this”, he said, giving me an umbrella. “I am sorry I can’t give you a lift in the car as I am on the way to my work shift…

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  • The Universe knows what you need

    The Universe knows what you need

    I got a taxi from Havant train station. The driver did not look very happy.“To the island, please” (meaning Hayling Island, which is 15 minutes away), I said.“To the Isle of Wight?” he said sarcastically with a straight face.I told him that for somebody looking so grumpy, he has a great sense of humour. After…

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  • On weekly reflections and beautiful gifts from the Universe

    On weekly reflections and beautiful gifts from the Universe

    I am in the habit of doing weekly reflections, asking myself the same question:” What have I done this week that is of high positive energy?”And what an amazing week it turned out to be. I made a new friend. You know the kind of friend that you have a feeling you knew in your…

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  • On hot weather and my top summer reads.

    On hot weather and my top summer reads.

    I do not like hot weather. It is just not my thing. A perfect summer for me is one with a maximum temperature of 20-22 degrees Celsius. As a very active person, I put a lot of things on hold, and my going out depends on whether the place has air conditioning. But being a…

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  • On creativity and Cosmic Owl Clay Workshop

    On creativity and Cosmic Owl Clay Workshop

    I am exploring my creativity because, until recently, I thought I did not have any. 🙂I was not good at drawing or any craft making. And then I realised that you don’t have to be good at it. I need to enjoy it and embrace my imperfections. This Sunday, I attended the Cosmic Owl Clay…

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  • On Purposeful Writing

    On Purposeful Writing

    Becoming a writer was a surprise to me. But then I realised it was an organic and meaningful part of my spiritual journey.To begin with, I hold a degree in philology and linguistics. This educational background gave me a love for words and their power.Through my job in sales, I write business messages daily.I am…

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  • On being changeable.

    On being changeable.

    I am known for being changeable, but I am also known for having a very strong gut feeling.This week, I had to make a decision that surprised many and even myself. I just started to have a feeling that something was not right. I learnt that every time I have doubts and questions in my…

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I’m Yana De Lilac

Welcome to the Walking in My Shoes site. Here I will share with you what inspires me: from luxury cruise ship holidays to culinary experiences and things to do in Southampton. Let me be your guide through the jungle of sights and activities, sharing hands-on tips on solo travelling. This is a non-commercial blog based entirely on my real personal experience. Thank you for joining me on this journey. Happy reading! 

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