My Southampton

  • Enjoy the Silence

    Enjoy the Silence

    Saturday morning I was heading towards Red Jet terminal in Southampton when a picture-perfect caught my attention. I stood there mesmerised together with many other people and the only thing that came to my mind at that amazing moment were the words from the song of my favourite Depeche Mode: Words are very unnecessary They…

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  • The joy of Carlton Place Market

    The joy of Carlton Place Market

    I love the spirit of the local community and supporting local businesses, I love handmade things and I love markets. All of those I can find at Carlton Place market every first Saturday of the month. https://visitsouthampton.co.uk/events/carlton-place-market This Saturday could not be a better day for the outdoor market with such beautiful sunshine marking the…

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  • Murder Mystery at the Mayflower Theatre

    Murder Mystery at the Mayflower Theatre

    Saturday afternoon, I was back at the Mayflower Theatre [https://www.mayflower.org.uk/whats-on/] for Murder on the Orient Express. I love books by Agatha Christie. I love movies based on her books, some more than others. For me, there was never a better Hercule Poirot than Peter Ustinov. So I had high expectations for this play, and I…

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  • On Pineapple Dating

    On Pineapple Dating

    This week, I was thinking about Valentine’s Day, one of the most commercial days of the year, and how annoying it can be for so many people who do not have love, dates, or relationships right now. But I wanted to make it light-hearted and encouraging, so I have done my research on what is…

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  • My love for Depeche Mode and more.

    My love for Depeche Mode and more.

    I am generally not a big fan of tribute bands. But I love, love, love Depeche Mode—you can probably tell from the title of my website! 🙂 Depeche Mode doesn’t tour often enough, usually every 4–5 years when a new album comes out. Since moving to the UK, I have never missed one of their

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  • Magic of Mayflower Theatre: A Review

    Magic of Mayflower Theatre: A Review

    I love the Mayflower Theatre in Southampton (mayflower.org.uk), not only for its history and beautiful décor but also for its amazing repertoire. Whenever I see posters for the Birmingham Royal Ballet (brb.org.uk), I always try to make time for their performances. Everything directed by the magnificent Carlos Acosta is outstanding, and Saturday’s performance of Cinderella

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  • Grateful for a Year in Southampton: My Story

    Grateful for a Year in Southampton: My Story

    The end of the Year is a time for reflection, a moment to look back on everything 2024 has brought. And what a year it has been for me! Exactly a year ago I moved to Southampton. I did not know anyone, I was scared and lonely but I knew with a very strong gut

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  • the journey to enjoying life : cloud nines store

    the journey to enjoying life : cloud nines store

    I love high-energy people.I love all things spiritual.I love crystals.I love dancing and great music to dance to.There is one place in Southampton where I can find all of this.This is the Cloud Nine store (formerly The Loft Ladder) Instagram link.Our opening times for anyone that wants to visit us! Visit us upstairs in The…

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  • Exploring Gaia Health Store

    Exploring Gaia Health Store

    A Southampton Gem Last December just before Christmas I moved to Southampton. I wanted to change my life. Sitting on my boxes in the empty flat, I was wondering what the hell I am doing here, in this big City all on my own. I was scared and lonely, but I decided that its up

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  • Exploring the Depths of Opera. Rigoletto

    Exploring the Depths of Opera. Rigoletto

    Today I am talking about Opera. I was exposed to it from a very early age, but I truly started to understand and feel Opera after growing up. You need life experience for this. Opera touches the deepest level of my soul and makes me cry every time. Last weekend I was at the Mayflower

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I’m Yana De Lilac

Welcome to the Walking in My Shoes site. Here I will share with you what inspires me: from luxury cruise ship holidays to culinary experiences and things to do in Southampton. Let me be your guide through the jungle of sights and activities, sharing hands-on tips on solo travelling. This is a non-commercial blog based entirely on my real personal experience. Thank you for joining me on this journey. Happy reading! 

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Video filmed to the Walking in My Shoes -Depeche Mode